‘I Love S*x So Much, But My Boyfriend is ‘Dull’ in Bed’ – Lady Cries Out

A girl has cried out to relationship expert, Deidre to come to her aid as she cannot cope because her boyfriend is dull in bed.

My new boyfriend wants to take things slowly but I rushed him into having s*x on our second date.

I can’t talk to him without making suggestions about having s*x and I feel like I am an addict. I am 20 and work in a call centre. I recently came out of a three-year relationship, during which I cheated on my partner lots of times.

Boys like me and I have always been able to get anyone I wanted, though I know deep down they are only after one thing. After all, that is what boys expect.

I met my current boyfriend when I was out with my mates. I dropped my phone and hadn’t realised. He ran after us and gave it back to me.

He’s 23 and he works in a garage but is completely different from any other guy I have met before. He is really sweet, kind and so considerate towards me.

No one has ever worried about how I feel before.

He took me on a date and treated me like a princess. He asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend and said we would take things slowly.

I behaved well on that first date, but on the second, we went to the pub. I had a bit to drink and when he got me back home I was all over him and touching him sexually.

I just couldn’t help myself — and then he couldn’t resist me.

The s*x was lovely and he was nice to me afterwards but I think he was a bit shocked. I feel so stupid for behaving like this.

I am also scared that I will be tempted to cheat on him, as I seem to want s*x all the time, but he works long hours and says he can’t see me every evening.

I know I have to hold back and mostly wait for him to want s*x.

He is the best thing that’s ever happened to me and I don’t want to lose him but I sense that I will unless I take things at his pace.