How To Have ‘No-Strings-Attached’ Sex With A Former Lover

These are common tips that will help you in building a safe s*xual relationship with your ex safely without being entangled in the problems of the past with the partner.

There are a lot of reasons why you might want to get it on with an old lover. One common reason is that, familiarity means comfort. This is someone who knows who you are and what you like. There is no element of surprise since you have been there before.

If all you are looking for is s*xy time with the ex, then keep these tips in mind.

1. Manage expectations: This is just about s*x, nothing more, so you need to keep it real with your ex. You can make that clear by saying something like, “We may not be right for a relationship, but I am still attracted to you and would love  to share that part of our relationship again.”

2. Play safe: Maybe you didn’t regularly use a condom when you were together, but he/she could have hooked up with others between your break up and now. So, wrap it up.

3. Remember why you broke up: Because you so don’t want to go there again. It’s important to take time to think about why things didn’t work out before you do anything physical: Once you’ve done it, there’s no going back.”

4. Don’t communicate: Talking and texting regularly are big no-nos. If they try to make it more than s*x, tell them you’re still attracted to them and that you’re grateful they have been in your life…but that you broke up for a reason.

5. Don’t swap partner stories: It’s tempting to let your ex know how wanted you are, but nobody wants to hear that when s*x is on the table. No need to share stories about the people you have been with.