For Ladies: How To Know He Will Be Great In Bed

You just know he’ll be good in bed… or do you? Yes, you’ve probably always told yourself that you should not judge a relationship based on the sex, but come on, who are we fooling? Sex counts! Either way we stack it, it counts. So, you’re enjoying the dating scene and you’re curious to know if he’ll be any good at the deed before you actually do it. Fret not. I have come up with this reliable list of the signs that he will be good in bed. Ready? Here we go.

1• He Does Not Brag

If a guy goes around bragging about past flings, chances are this person isn’t really great in bed. It’s those who constantly brag about how awesome they are between the sheets, that really are bad in bed. It’s a fact, all women are different and all want different things in bed. Guys don’t automatically know what each individual person wants. You have to communicate to them to do what you actually like, rather than what their last girlfriend partner. As noted in Men’s Health magazine, the men who brag are the ones who need validation that they are indeed “good in bed.”

2• That Eye Contact

Eye contact is not just an indicator that he likes you but also how good he could be in the sack. When he makes eye contact with you, how do you feel? Is it dull, shallow or very intense? When you make eye contact with a guy who is good in bed, you will have an unexplainable feeling. That eye contact will be so intense, you’ll feel yourself melting. If you do not believe me on this one, try it out some day. You’ll see exactly what I mean. And trust me darling you will definitely want to make eye contact with this one in bed!

3• His Cooking is Sloppy, but He Cleans up Nicely

To test this one, you obviously have to see him cook you a meal. When you finally succeed at making him cook (if you don’t get him in bed by then), then pay attention to how he cooks. If he cooks sloppily, don’t take it as a bad sign. Instead concentrate on how he cleans up. If he cleans up neatly, that will definitely be a sign that he is good in bed. Infact a friend and I were just discussing the same thing the other day and from her vast experience, she seems to totally believe there’s a connection between the two.

4• He Pays Attention to Your Feelings

When he speaks with you, he pays attention to every word. He shows that he cares whether you are sad, mad, upset and of course, feeling good. When you’re happy, he’s happy. When you’re sad, he looks sad. I do not know what other girls think, but this is something my friend told me she noticed about guys who are good in bed. When a guy does not care about how you feel, then he is not going to care how you feel in bed. Does this make sense?
5• The Way He Dances

The way his body moves on the dance floor can give you some hints about how he’ll move in the bedroom. Pay attention, because you’ll be able to tell if he has great rhythm and how well he can move those hips. If he makes dancing look easy, he’ll be great under the sheets.

6• The Way He Speaks

Some men just have it in their voice. You hear him and you know there’s no way he’s going to be bad in bed. That’s what make shot men like George Clooney and Gerard Butler hotter. When he speaks to you, what tone of voice does he use? Does he use a sensual voice that just screams out “I am good in bed?” Or is it dull and boring? Pay attention to the way he speaks and see if the way his talks lure you into bed.

7• He Isn’t Selfish

Does he share his dessert with you and offer to pay for the meal? You better hope so! You have to find someone who isn’t selfish, because s8x is a two-way street. If he’s selfish when you’re out at dinner, he’ll be selfish in the bedroom, too. No one wants that.

10• How Confident is He?

You don’t want to hop in bed with a man who is afraid to take his shirt off in front of you. You want to find someone with confidence, because they’ll be unafraid of Str!pping for you and kissing you. They know they’re good at what they do, so they won’t hesitate to get the job done.

11• His Kiss

You can tell a whole lot about him by the way he kisses. Does he take his time? Is he messy? Does he make sure your comfortable with every move he makes? Pay attention to these things the next time you lock lips.

12• He’s a Fast Learner

If he’s never cooked pasta before, but picks it up right after you hand him the recipe, he’s skilled at adapting to new situations. That means that he’ll be able to learn what you love right away. The faster he figures out what makes you tick, the faster you’ll be in bliss.

With some of these signs, you know he’ll be good in bed. If he is not good in bed the first time, that does not mean that you should dump him. I know, I said s8x does count, no matter how you stack it, but there is always room for some improvement! And besides s8x does get better with communication and time…Do you have some sure shot ways to know if a guy is good in bed?