12 Signs You’ve Found The Woman You Should Make Your Wife

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When it comes to marriage, it’s important we make the right decisions as it’s so easy for everything to go wrong if we get married to the wrong person for the wrong reasons. The real trick is understanding whether or not the woman is – for lack of a better phrase – a keeper.

While each man will be attracted to a different sort of woman, there are a couple of signs that you should pay especially close attention to.

Call me old-fashioned, but I believe a man should only get married once. Here are a couple of ways of knowing that the woman you’ve found may very well be the last woman you’ll ever need:

1. You share the same values. You both want the same type of relationship, you know where you both stand on having children, and your goals for the future are the same. If you want to work until you’re 90, so does she. If you want to retire early and eat only pudding for the rest of your life, she’s cool with that.

2. You can tell her anything.

There’s nothing you ever feel like you need to hide from her. Ever. No matter how anxious or worried or nervous or scared you’re feeling, you know you can tell her anything at all and she won’t judge you. S’*xual fantasies, awkward illnesses, a fight you had with your parents; anything

3. She loves your friends and regularly asks about them.

You guys don’t even care that much about having “guys night” because she can hang no matter what’s happening. She knows all your friends by name and is genuinely invested in whether or not your roommate Kate gets together with that guy she likes because they would be so cute together and she wants her to be happy.  You also don’t mind hanging with her and the girls if they invite you out.

4. She still texts you naughty little somethings.

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been dating she still sends you flirty texts and let’s you know how bad she’s been wanting you all day.

5. You’re more than just her boyfriend and she’s way more than just your girlfriend.

You’re in a partnership. Both of you actively play a role in your relationship to make it the best it can be.

6. You never get sick of being around her.

She’s always the number one person you think of when something happens. If you find a funny clip on YouTube or you just witnessed some crazy shit happening she’s the first person you text.

7. You guys know how to have healthy disagreements.

Neither of you are perfect and sometimes you get fed up with each other but it’s never an ugly, unfair fight of name calling or saying things you don’t mean. You both work to have productive discussions when something major comes up. And if it does get heated you both know how to back away and let each other cool down. Also she doesn’t get excessively angry or mean-spirited, and she doesn’t bring up old issues or low blows just to hurt you. She might be mad, but she wants to work it out with you, so you talk about it like adults who love each other.

8. You don’t try to change each other.

You both accepted a long time ago the unique quirks that both make you you. Sure, you might not understand why she does everything she does but that’s okay. You’ve accepted her flaws and imperfections just as she has accepted yours.

9. She inspires you to be a better person.

Whether it’s her ability to be more patient with strangers or her drive to reach her goals in life you love watching her and learning from her. She makes you want to be a better man. She believes you can do things even you’re not sure you can do because she has the utmost faith and confidence in you even at your lowest moments because she believes you are magic.

10.The s*x is really, really good.

There is a certain level of physical chemistry that I believe necessary for a marriage to work. This is one reason I could never understand remaining celibate until after the wedding day – if the s*x is really bad then you’re going to have a difficult time being happy within the partnership.

Some people say that they don’t care much for s*x… I’d say that this is because they’ve never had mind-blowing s*x before. Although you may be able to get away with ignorance as bliss, why settle for less?

11. She makes sacrifices for you and you do the same for her. And she thinks nothing of it because she genuinely enjoys making sure you’re happy and you feel the same way about her. If your woman can’t make sacrifices for you, then I don’t think you should be marrying her. For any marriage to work, sacrifices must be taken.

12. She loves bragging about you. To her friends, coworkers, everyone. Because she’s proud of you and thinks you are the coolest person she’s ever met. Her friends and roommates and coworkers know every little thing about you before you even meet them. You’re basically like a boy band she’s obsessed with that she also gets to date.

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